Monday, February 16, 2009

放手

heres a new one...
came from an idea of love i guess...
sometimes... "If you love her, let her go"
This may be a very hard decision to come to..... but yea... it may very well be the best.....

陪你走到家的门口
听你说一个借口
虽然我不能接受
你想离开的理由

陪你走到十字路口
你却转过身就走
当你推开我的手
冷风在我的手中转动

因为爱你我才选择了放手
不想回头让自己的眼泪流
如果你心里 还有着我
请你告诉我 该不该放手

不想让你难受我才放开手
背叛自己的心谁会懂
心好痛当你说没有结果
也许爱已淡了在留住你 也没有用

陪你走到十字路口
你却转过身就走
当你推开我的手
冷风在我的手中转动

因为爱你我才选择了放手
不想回头让自己的眼泪流
如果你心里 还有着我
请你告诉我该不该放手

不想让你难受我才放开
手背叛自己的心谁会懂
心好痛当你说没有结果
也许爱已淡了在留住你 也没有用

Tuesday, February 3, 2009

Get to know yourself better

As introduced by Justin... Lol.... cool...

Your view on yourself:

You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:

You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:

You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.

The seriousness of your love:

You are very serious about relationships and aren't interested in wasting time with people you don't really like. If you meet the right person, you will fall deeply and beautifully in love.

Your views on education:

Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.
The right job for you:You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.

How do you view success:

You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.

What are you most afraid of:

You are afraid of having no one to rely on in times of trouble. You don't ever want to be unable to take care of yourself. Independence is important to you.

Who is your true self:

You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.

www.quizbox.com/personality/test82.aspx

Chinese 牛 Year 2009

This year was a rather tight-scheduled year... We visited like 1 additional relative this year...

Apart from that, my Aunt revealed a heart-warming family history to us...
The additional relative that we visited was actually my 3rd Grand-Aunt (Grandma's 3rd younger sister).

They are actually the only 2 biological sisters in the family. Our eldest Grand-aunt has passed away, which leaves the 2 of them. The story is that our Great-Grandfather was actually from a wealthy family....
He had 2 wives,1st Grand-aunt, Grandma and 3rd Grand-aunt were the children of the first wife, the 2nd wife had 10 children, the rest of our Grand-aunts and Grand-uncles. When they were very young, Grandma actually looked after the 10 children as though they were biological sibilings even though they were only step-siblings... Until today.. all the younger Grand-aunts and Grand-uncles still look up to Grandma as a respected elder in the family...

Cheers to Grandma =)